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Tender: A Novel

February 22, 2016

Tender by Belinda McKeon
Published by Lee Boudreaux Books
Publication date: February 16th 2016
four-stars

tender

 

There are few things more exhilarating or frightening than college. Old enough to know there is more out there but young enough to have no idea what it is. Into this world comes eighteen-year-old Catherine who has, amazingly, managed to convince her conservative parents that she should live at school in Dublin rather than commute from home. Quiet and shy she is soon swept off her feet by the most unlikely of new friends, an older boy named James who is everything she is not. He is not in school but is pursuing photography and is geeky, funny, and affectionate. He becomes her conduit to the world—taking her into situations she would never venture into on her own and saying out loud what she only thinks and feels. Thanks to author Belinda McKeon in her new novel Tender we become privy to the vast and varied rhythms of their friendship.

Set in the late 1990s, Ireland is still a deeply religious country, so when James reveals to Catherine that he is gay it adds another element to Tender. The unique intimacy they share

Already they had their own way of talking, their private phrases, their language…

is freed from the tension that sex puts between members of the opposite sex. They are still able to move in the intense, almost shivery, atmosphere of bonding, but without any of the fear a romantic relationship engenders. This is only true in their world at school. Everywhere else James has to negotiate through the reactions of his family, friends, and the environment outside university, with Catherine, as his dearest friend, assuming a protective role. Only with Catherine can he be himself, until he starts inhabiting his own skin and then what was so close goes terribly wrong and there’s no going back.

Despite how much of Tender feels tender McKeon is not content with easy to define characters. By the time the novel ends, it’s difficult to sum up either James or Catherine and this is why the story lingers. Through McKeon’s prose she evokes the emotions stirred up by college—the ending of the teenage years and the beginning of adulthood; the uncomfortable dance of dating, sexuality and trying to decide who and what you’re supposed to be. There is no huge action in Tender just a small story with implications that, while they don’t change the course of the world, permanently alter a relationship. The kind of mistakes the heart makes when the mind knows better.

four-stars

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11 Comments
Filed Under: Book Reviews, Fiction Tagged: book clubs, coming-of-age, Ireland, Lee Boudreaux Books, literary

Comments

  1. tanya (52 books or bust) says

    February 22, 2016 at 2:30 am

    Ok, Ok, consider it added to my TBR. I’m trying not to do that as much, but Tender sounds like it’s worth it.

    Reply
  2. Shannon @ River City Reading says

    February 22, 2016 at 5:03 am

    Incredible, as always. Thanks for the push to read this one, I totally needed it!

    Reply
  3. Sarah's Book Shelves says

    February 22, 2016 at 5:32 am

    I’m 7% away from finishing this one. And there are just so many cringe-worthy moments! Like when I’m yelling in my head….NO, BAD IDEA, DON’T! But, the train is already hurtling too fast and can’t be stopped.

    And I think one of McKeon’s major strengths…and why this book works…is her ability to create heart-stopping intensity out of feelings and emotions rather than action.

    Reply
    • Catherine says

      February 22, 2016 at 10:23 am

      Exactly! Not much happens but so much happens!

      Reply
      • Monika @ Lovely Bookshelf says

        February 23, 2016 at 12:51 pm

        I LOVE books like that, where you feel like you’ve been on such a ride but… not much happened!

        Reply
  4. Deepika Ramesh says

    February 22, 2016 at 11:29 am

    Ah, this review is so beautifully written. Maybe, if not for this review, I wouldn’t have added this book to my TBR. 🙂

    And, I love the cover too.

    Reply
    • Catherine says

      February 23, 2016 at 10:39 am

      Thank you and thank you for stopping by! It’s a quiet novel, not a lot of action, but so beautifully written it’s worth it.

      Reply
  5. Marisa @ The Daily Dosage says

    February 22, 2016 at 7:53 pm

    I don’t want to read further than this perfect sentiment “Old enough to know there is more out there but young enough to have no idea what it is.” But I did read the rest of this and it sounds really good. And Sarah’s comment is strong as well. I like books where so much happens and nothing really at the same time.

    Reply
    • Catherine says

      February 23, 2016 at 10:38 am

      It’s definitely more a character study which, really, isn’t it the same with college? This brought back so many cringe-worthy memories.

      Reply
  6. Tara @ Running 'N' Reading says

    February 25, 2016 at 6:49 am

    This reminds me of The Art of Fielding, which is a great thing (I LOVED that novel!); after all of these glowing recommendations, this will be my next read!! 🙂

    Reply
  7. Jennine G says

    February 26, 2016 at 11:36 am

    Sounds interesting. That last line of yours hooked me…I don’t mind lack of big action. Every day life and introspection are very interesting to me.

    Reply

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