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This is Between Us

December 11, 2013

This Is Between Us by Kevin Sampsell
Published by Tin House Books
Publication date: November 1st 2013
Genres: Contemporary, Fiction, Literary
two-stars

this is between us

 

This is Between Us is an intimate look at the minutia that comprises a relationship. And not in that lovey-dovey, fictional way but in the real, confusing, tedious, painful way. Author Kevin Sampsell navigates the terrain of affairs, blended families, teenagers, and jealousy in quirky little vignettes. The story covers five years that begin as an affair on both sides, move through divorce, dating, and to living together.

The book reads like a diary—small paragraphs of events and thoughts jotted down from the male narrator’s perspective. Sampsell’s stream-of-consciousness prose is effective at relaying the complex banalities of love

You started to think I was falling out of love with you. You said I didn’t share things with you anymore. I asked you what you meant and you said I hadn’t read out loud to you in months. And you said I didn’t take your picture anymore…You said I said no more often. I didn’t even push the cart at the grocery store when we went together. You said my hands felt cold. You said my lips didn’t open so easily. You said I was not all here. And I asked you, “Where?”

But while the ‘I’ can create intimacy, the novel’s format keeps the reader at a remove. It’s difficult to get attached when things are related in such broken bits. With no string to the narrative there is no way to emotionally engage and instead the novel feels dispassionate. Although I never connected with any of the characters in This is Between Us, Sampsell’s writing is strong enough that I’ll be interested in where he goes next.

two-stars

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Filed Under: Book Reviews, Fiction Tagged: contemporary life, Pacific Northwest, Portland, Tin House

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  1. Ciska @ Ciska's Book Chest says

    December 11, 2013 at 8:05 am

    The part you quoted is very beautiful. I can imagine though that with reading more pages like this it might be difficult to connect to a person. Thanks for sharing your thoughts.

    Reply
  2. Rebecca @ Love at First Book says

    December 11, 2013 at 6:06 pm

    Oh cool!!! I love this idea for a book. It sounds unique.

    Question – did it ever seem whiny or was it just kind of like someone explaining?

    Reply
    • Catherine says

      December 11, 2013 at 8:23 pm

      A combination of both- which may be why it didn’t work so well for me.

      Reply

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