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We Are Not Like Them: A Novel

October 11, 2021

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We Are Not Like Them by Christine Pride, Jo Piazza
Published by Atria Books
Publication date: October 5, 2021
Genres: Book Clubs, Fiction, Contemporary, Social Issues
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I’m a fan of diverse reading. There are so many places I’ve never gone and experiences I haven’t had in real life. Visiting them in the pages of a book helps expand my horizons and opens my mind in ways it wouldn’t be without reading. Sadly, there are issues happening right here in America that I may think I understand, but I truly have no idea. Racism is one of them and We Are Not Like Them is an outstanding novel about a friendship forced to face it head on.

Riley is Black and Jen is White. They have been best friends since they were little girls. Jen spent much of her time with Riley’s family as her mother worked a lot and was not a reliable parent. As adults their paths drifted apart—Jen stayed in Philadelphia, married, and works as a receptionist, Riley got a journalism degree and moved to the South—but Riley’s return to Philly for a job brought them back in touch. So much so that when Jen needs money for a final attempt at IVF Riley pays for it.

All that shatters after Jen’s husband, a cop, shoots and kills an unarmed 14-year-old Black teen. Riley’s personal and professional lives collide. Not simply because her dearest friend’s husband committed murder in a way that’s all too familiar in her world, but also because her job has put her front and center at the coverage so she cannot reveal she’s Jen’s friend. Jen finds herself alone, in her third trimester, reaching out to her dearest friend and unable to understand why Riley can’t understand. A bond that seemed unbreakable becomes fragile as each woman realizes that maybe the strength of their friendship was an illusion.

There’s a lot to absorb in We Are Not Like Them. What could easily turn into a sensationalistic, slugfest of opposing viewpoints is elevated into a deeply nuanced look at one of America’s greatest problems. This is due to the fact that the book has two authors. Christine Pride is Black and Jo Piazza is White. To even attempt to write fiction on such a combustible topic is brave, but to do it as well as these two do is remarkable. Every perspective is represented and not in a facile way that can be shrugged off or pushed back on, but with real thought. It made for tense, uncomfortable, but highly worthwhile reading.

 

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*I received a free copy of this book from Atria Books in exchange for an honest review.*

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Filed Under: Book Reviews, Fiction Tagged: book clubs, contemporary life, friendship, racism

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  1. Susan says

    October 11, 2021 at 5:43 am

    Thank you for your review. This book was already on my library requests list. Now I am looking forward to reading it even more. 5 stars from you is high praise for a book, and its been a while since I read a five star book.

    Reply
    • Catherine says

      October 17, 2021 at 10:31 am

      It deserves it, but at the same time I was so tense the entire time I was reading. There’s plenty to recognize which is not always pleasant.

      Reply
  2. Laila says

    October 11, 2021 at 8:33 am

    This is on my list!

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    • Catherine says

      October 17, 2021 at 10:31 am

      So good, but not easy reading.

      Reply
  3. Karen says

    October 11, 2021 at 10:30 am

    Loved loved loved this book. I’m also really intrigued by dual writing. It must be hard but filled with such unique perspective and emotions. Great review!

    Reply
    • Catherine says

      October 17, 2021 at 10:34 am

      I’m curious about the whole process. I’m pretty sure Sarah interviewed them both for her podcast.

      Reply
      • Susan says

        October 17, 2021 at 11:38 am

        Modern Mrs Darcy had them on her podcast last Tuesday. I was reading this 5 star book at the time so I haven’t listened to it yet.

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        • Catherine says

          October 30, 2021 at 8:58 am

          Sarah just had them on her podcast so I’ll be listening to that this weekend.

          Reply

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