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How Not to Drown in a Glass of Water

October 11, 2022

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How Not to Drown in a Glass of Water by Angie Cruz
Published by Flatiron Books
Publication date: September 13, 2022
Genres: Book Clubs, Fiction, Contemporary, Cultural, Literary
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Cara Romero is one of the many unfortunate workers whose job is lost in the 2008 recession. Now, in order to receive an unemployment check she must undergo 12 sessions with a work coach to help her find other job opportunities. What unfolds in the novel How Not to Drown in a Glass of Water is the transcription of these sessions that ultimately focus less on work and more on life.

Cara’s first appointment is a recitation of facts. She’s 56 years old, has a grown son named Fernando, a sister, Angela, and brother, Rafa. She came to America 27 years ago from the Dominican Republic to escape an abusive husband. She worked at the factory job 25 years and is at a loss to what she’ll do next. But she’s a hard worker and open to any kind of job anywhere in the city. She loves to cook, is great with children, works well with others, and is never sick.

It’s as How Not to Drown progresses that Cara’s personality begins to assert itself. For every second of relevant information extracted by the counselor, there are minutes of Cara’s stories, digressions, and minutia about her life. Her tempestuous relationships with her best friend, Lulu, and her sister Angela. The son she loves left 10 years ago and wants nothing to do with her. Her landlord wants to evict her so he can raise the rent on her apartment. Oh, and she can smell sickness. She diagnosed her brother’s diabetes before the doctor did. Also, Alicia the Psychic sent her a letter telling her she’ll be coming into money soon.

Despite the government worker’s efforts to keep their sessions on track with assessment tools, training classes, and going out on interviews, Cara’s personality dominates How Not to Drown. With each page, more of her armor is shed, leaving behind the tender rawness of mistakes made and the resulting loneliness. Even as it becomes clear that life has not worked out as she hoped and that often she’s brought her troubles on herself she never gives up.

As someone who’s gone through the job training element of unemployment I appreciated how author Cruz conveys both the humor and the frustration of the process. What begins as a purely transactional relationship with a set number of sessions slowly turns into an intimate look of one indomitable woman’s life and her attempts to live with dignity. How Not to Drown in a Glass of Water is bright, tender reading that provides humor infused with insight into the kind of struggles most of us have not experienced.

 

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*I received a free copy of this book from Flatiron in exchange for an honest review.*

 

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Filed Under: Book Reviews, Fiction Tagged: book clubs, contemporary life, literary

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  1. Susan says

    October 11, 2022 at 3:29 am

    Thank you for your review. The book sounds interesting. I went and requested it from my library.

    Reply
    • Catherine says

      October 31, 2022 at 1:57 pm

      I think you’ll really enjoy it!

      Reply
  2. Kelly Hooker says

    October 11, 2022 at 5:10 am

    Fantastic review! This was a delight on audio!

    Reply
    • Catherine says

      October 31, 2022 at 1:58 pm

      That’s so interesting! It seems like it could go either way so I’m glad the audio is a positive. I’ll be sure and mention that in the podcast.

      Reply
  3. Laila says

    October 12, 2022 at 12:28 pm

    I never did read Dominicana but I heard that was great. This one sounds appealing too. Too many books!

    Reply
    • Catherine says

      October 31, 2022 at 2:00 pm

      I know it! Especially as this year is winding down. I feel as if I’m so far behind. Maybe time to stop with numeric reading goals?

      Reply
  4. Susan says

    October 23, 2022 at 3:32 pm

    Wow 12 sessions with a work coach sounds a bit painful & tedious. There must be humor! Thank goodness. But I can relate to bad things in the recession of 2008/09 …. that was a killer. blah. I’m hoping Cara can rise above.

    Reply
    • Catherine says

      October 31, 2022 at 2:01 pm

      I remember having to do the same kind of sessions and by the third one the woman acknowledged it was wasting both our time for me to be there.

      Reply

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