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How Hard Can It Be?

June 11, 2018

How Hard Can It Be? (Kate Reddy, #2) by Allison Pearson
Published by St. Martin's Press
Publication date: June 5, 2018
Genres: Contemporary, Fiction, Humor
three-half-stars

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You know how sometimes you see a trailer for a movie and it is fantastic, then you go see the movie and realize all the best bits were in the trailer? The cover for How Hard Can It Be? is like that. Every woman I know who’s seen it has laughed out loud, but does that mean that what lies behind the cover is any good?  It’s the modern-day story of Kate Reddy, who after an absence of seven years is re-entering the work force. Maybe not a big deal, but she’s also 49—an age that sends shivers down the back of any woman, whether she’s currently employed or not. It’s the new tipping point between desirable and productive and dried out and ready to be euthanized. Or so employers say. With a premise like this and a cover like that, How Hard Can It Be? could either be relatable, fantastic reading or something as overwrought as Diane Keaton screeching her way through First Wives Club. The good news is: it’s the former.

Kate let go of her career as a fund manager in London to stay home with her children until her husband lost his job as an architect and decided it was a good time to refocus on ‘what’s important’ and embark on the training necessary to become a counsellor. Training that would take two years, involve going through intensive, expensive, therapy, and would result in an income a fraction of what he was previously earning. Bottom line: Kate needs to go back to work. She does, even managing to get a job at her old firm, which, after the crash of 2008, has been emptied of everyone she knew and refilled with 20 and 30-somethings. She only gets the job by chopping seven years off her age. And so begins a life of lies, and for the reader, high humor.

How Hard Can It Be? meets every readers’ prayer of a book they don’t want to end through Kate’s acerbic wit in dealing with the various challenges of being a middle-aged woman and everything that comes with that stage of life. Her battle to get the kids to talk and share with her:

 

 …trying to wean them off their screen addiction seems futile. Like switching off the wind or the rain. If there’s a heaven, and my kids ever get there, their first question is going to St. Peter will be, “What’s the password?”

 Hitting perimenopause and watching her libido disappear:

 What sex drive? Signals from down below are now so intermittent it’s like one of those black-box flight recorders lost on the bottom of the Pacific Ocean.

 Or preparing for a college reunion:

You can rummage in your jewelry box and find a ‘statement necklace’ to wear. (And the statement is: “I don’t like this neck and would like the old neck back, please.’)

 Beyond the laugh out loud observations, Kate’s feelings also resonate with the moments that are often not considered, unless they’ve happened to you. For me, this was a particularly apt passage:

 So for more than twenty years I worked and I was paid well and I stood on my own two feet. Never thinking what it would feel like to have your legs pulled out from under you. People talk about giving up work as if it’s a holiday or a change of scene, but in my experience it’s more like a death—a small death, but a profound loss nonetheless. When you don’t have a pay cheque, a month feels very different—contourless, void.

The book is crammed with these instances on everything from parenting to asking for a raise and all are done with incisive competency, like a surgeon with a sense of humor. Because who doesn’t want that?

There is a lot of plot in How Hard Can It Be? from endless teenage daughter drama to marital woes, but Pearson had me so firmly entrenched in her words it never became a problem. This is breezy, entertaining reading, not literary fiction. And in case you’re worried I’ve used all the best lines in this review? Not even close.

three-half-stars

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13 Comments
Filed Under: Book Reviews, Fiction Tagged: contemporary life, humor, marriage, midlife, St. Martin's Press

Comments

  1. Susie | Novel Visits says

    June 11, 2018 at 6:10 am

    How Hard Can it Be sounds like exactly the sort of book I like listening to. I’m definitely going to give it a go this summer. The quotes you included won me over!

    Reply
    • Catherine says

      June 12, 2018 at 9:21 am

      If they have a British narrator I bet it will be awesome! It’s a British writer so there’s all kinds of slang we don’t use. I love that accent!

      Reply
  2. Lynn @ Smoke & Mirrors says

    June 11, 2018 at 9:23 am

    Sounds like a good relaxing read!

    Reply
  3. The Cue Card says

    June 12, 2018 at 5:42 am

    Excellent. The lines are funny and the premise purfect. I’m in the early 50s euthanize stage at this point so I’m sure this one will speak to me.

    Reply
    • Catherine says

      June 12, 2018 at 9:18 am

      I’m in the middle 50s and almost every line hit home. Sigh.

      Reply
  4. NA 07950 says

    June 12, 2018 at 1:22 pm

    I loved it and this it would make a great movie! However…..it would have scared me a bit had I read it when I was in my 30’s….

    Reply
    • Catherine says

      June 13, 2018 at 5:32 pm

      Definitely!

      Reply
  5. Amy Melniczenko says

    June 14, 2018 at 5:46 pm

    I’ve got this one coming up soon on my TBR – it sounds like a good fit for my reading interests!

    Reply
    • Catherine says

      June 15, 2018 at 9:44 am

      It is just fun, light reading- perfect for right now when everything else is so negative out there.

      Reply
  6. Abby says

    June 14, 2018 at 8:56 pm

    Great review, Catherine! I love the quotes that you picked, they made me laugh all over again. It makes me want to reread it.

    Reply
    • Catherine says

      June 15, 2018 at 9:43 am

      I’ve been thinking the same thing, but have decided I’ll read the first one for something new.

      Thanks so much for stopping by! I love your reviews so am flattered you like mine.

      Reply
  7. Sarah's Book Shelves says

    June 15, 2018 at 4:21 am

    Maybe I’ll pick this up this weekend….I’ve finished all my June review copies (well, I guess this was one, but it was an automatic download, so I’m not stressed about fitting it in).

    Reply
    • Catherine says

      June 15, 2018 at 9:41 am

      I think there are aspects of her humor that will really get you laughing. The plot is fairly standard (no surprises), but her take on so many things is spot on. Plus, I love all the British slang.

      Reply

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